Are You Suffering From A Support Deficiency?

June 17, 2015 by admin

by Ariana Newcomer

Are you longing to become the woman you know in your bones you were born to be, yet feeling stuck? Are you struggling to create the life you most yearn for?

You may be suffering from a “support deficiency,” like my big dog, Pele, trying to sleep in the cat’s bed…

Think about an area of your life you are most wanting to manifest in, and answer these questions:

What are the current obstacles and challenges you’re facing?
How many other people in your life actually know about your deep desires in this area, and are supporting you in your vision?
How many people are supporting you to overcome the struggles and challenges in your way?
What resources have you accessed to help you achieve a breakthrough?

For many women, the answer to these questions is NOT MANY.

Women can have a great deal of trouble asking for and receiving support, not to mention actually investing in themselves by paying for support and mentoring.

I certainly did! I started making real breakthroughs when I started taking support seriously enough to invest in coaches and mentors.

Spirituality And Money

June 10, 2015 by admin

Many spiritual entrepreneurs struggle with bridging the gap between spirituality and money. In this video I share a simple mind set shift that I use in my coaching with clients to help them merge the two.Continue Reading

Never, Ever, UNDERCHARGE Again!

June 1, 2015 by admin

Memorial Day has come and gone and summer is officially upon us and you know what that means… Travel! Packing your bags and heading off for some quality time to recharge and rejuvenate.

Let me ask you a question – when was the last time YOU took time off from your business to take a vacation?

Unfortunately, for many heart centered entrepreneurs, travel is viewed as a luxury and it gets put off because our schedules are jammed packed with marketing activities in an effort to get more clients.

Many entrepreneurs don’t realize how mentally, physically and financially worn down they are truly are AND most make the common mistake that taking on MORE clients is the only solution to fix the problem.

From personal experience I can tell you… It’s NOT!

Taking on more clients only means that you will have less free time for yourself. The answer is not more clients, it’s getting help to create a pricing strategy so you make more money with less clients!Continue Reading

Zip It

May 19, 2015 by admin

by Ariana Newcomer

I’m an advocate for speaking up, speaking out, and being authentic.

That doesn’t mean I think you should spill whatever you’re thinking all the time, or that you should dump your feelings all over others indiscriminately.

To succeed in being truly heard and understood when you speak out, there are definitely times to zip your lip. Button it. Hit pause. Step away from the keyboard. Just don’t say anything.

I’m not talking about suppressing yourself, swallowing insults, silencing yourself forever. Nor am I talking about ignoring things. I’m talking about taking some time to pause, breathe, think.

It’s a temporary ZIP IT so you can succeed in truly communicating.

Instead of responding immediately to a flaming email, urgent phone call, or upsetting remark with your own flaming arrow, WAIT. Those flaming responses can end up costing a lot of time, and creating confusion and resentment. They don’t create true communication (they actually put barriers in the way of true communication). After them, you have to repair relationships, apologize. You often have to back-track, and clarify what you really meant to say.

Also, when we give those flaming or sarcastic responses, we’re automatically creating the same kind of response in the other person that they just created in us – irritation, frustration, anger and resistance – which equals NO COMMUNICATION.

No matter what awful thing somebody says, we have the opportunity to choose how we’re going to respond to it. That opportunity comes during the ZIP – the pause to breathe and think.Continue Reading

The Voice of Your Soul…

May 14, 2015 by admin

by Ariana Newcomer

You think that your voice is just the way it is and there’s nothing you can do about it. Mostly you take it for granted.

But really your voice is an expression of your entire essence. It is a window into your soul. It contains more information about you than almost anything else.

Just from how you sound, people know more about your beliefs, your confidence and your essence in 5 seconds than you could ever tell them just with words.

Since communication is central in life, your voice is your pathway to opportunity and a key secret to success in this world.

When you learn to control the elements of your voice, strip away things you have layered on top of it, and stop holding your voice back, you come into an authentic, confident and powerful expression of all that you are through your voice.

You can become influential beyond your wildest dreams, impacting people, drawing them in, using your new powerful voice – the voice of your soul – to create the life you most deeply desire.

I would love to work with you so you can step into your embodied, authentic voice, and into your calling. Book a free Voice Your Value Breakthrough Session, and let’s talk.

The Secret To Following Your Calling

May 8, 2015 by admin

Shhhh. It’s a secret.

Want to follow your calling? Embody your voice.

You know you want to succeed doing your heart’s work and making a difference in the world. That thing – a calling – you’ve got it. It whispers your name in the night, tugs at your soul, and tells you to do things you’re scared to do. So you resist.

But there it is again the next night, next day, next week. Still, you resist.

You know that if you don’t follow that calling, you’ll regret it. You already regret the time you’ve spent serving other people’s dreams (except your kids’ dreams – you love serving your kids’ dreams).

You take a few steps into it. It’s scary, and different, and hard. You back off.

I can’t, you say. I don’t know enough. I’m not good enough. I don’t have enough credentials and certifications. Who am I to think I can _______ ? (Fill in the blank with your calling.)